Kilcamb Weddings
Scottish Wedding Traditions
In case you want to include them!
01
Handfasting
The ancient Celtic ritual of binding the couple’s hands together with ribbon, tartan, or rope.
Symbolizes the joining of lives — it’s actually where the phrase “tying the knot” comes from.
02
Quaich Ceremony
A Quaich is a shallow two-handled drinking cup used to share whisky.
The couple drinks from it as a symbol of trust, unity, and the shared journey ahead.
03
Bagpipes and Highland Dress
Bagpipes are often played as the bride arrives or the couple leaves the ceremony.
Grooms and guests commonly wear kilts in their family tartan, complete with sporran, sgian dubh (small knife), and kilt hose.
04
Feet Washing
In some rural traditions, the bride’s (or both the couple’s) feet are washed by an older married woman, symbolizing purification and readiness for marriage. Perfect for a shoreline venue!
05
Pinning of the Tartan
After the ceremony, the groom’s family may present the bride with a piece of their clan tartan — often pinned to her dress or sash.
Symbolizes her welcome into the clan.
06
The Wedding Scramble
As the bride arrives or leaves, the father of the bride throws coins to children (often outside the church or venue).
It’s a symbol of prosperity and generosity, and also a fun, chaotic little tradition!
A pre-wedding and lesser-known and used tradition!
The Speirin' (Asking Permission)
Traditionally, the groom would “speir” (ask) for the bride’s hand from her father — often over a dram of whisky.
Creeling the Groom (Highland tradition)
Friends fill a large basket (creel) with rocks and strap it to the groom’s back.
He must carry it until his bride agrees to kiss him — then he's “freed” from his burden.
Exclusive Use Wedding Venue in Scotland
Plan your perfect ceremony with us!
Exclusive Use Weddings are a speciality at Kilcamb Lodge in Scotland and are extremely popular. The mystique and beauty of the Scottish highland combined with our lovely loch side setting creates the perfect backdrop for a small intimate wedding celebration for 22 people.
The ceremony can be a Civil Ceremony just as it would be in a Registry Office. If a religious ceremony is your preference this too can be arranged.
Kilcamb has four designated places where marriages can take place:
The Loch Side by the Old Anchor
In the Drawing Room
The Garden Swing or Marquee
Under the Lime Tree
Book a wedding showround and see for yourself
A Magical Place to get Married
on Scotland's West Coast
Why not join us for a wedding showround they are the perfect opportunity to meet the team, have a look around, and kickstart your planning.
Alternatively, check out wedding gallery for a stunning selection of photos from our past brides and grooms, helping to provide you with insipration for your big day.
For more information call us on 01967 402 257 or simply email us at: enquiries@kilcamblodge.co.uk
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Whether you are planning an intimate wedding for a handful of loved ones or a grand ceremony for up to 120, we can create a wedding package just for you.
Telephone: +44 01967 402257
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Address: Strontian, Argyll, Highlands of Scotland, PH36 4HY
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